LISTENING
Tapescript: "What would you do?"
Three friends playing a game
NADIA OK, next one. If you found your best friend's partner on a dating app, would you tell them?
KWAME Instantly. I'd take a screenshot, I'd send it, done.
RUTH No, you wouldn't. Everyone says that, but nobody actually does it. If I saw that, I'd talk to the partner first. I'd give them a chance to explain.
KWAME A chance to lie, you mean.
RUTH It could be an old profile! If you sent that screenshot and you were wrong, you'd destroy a relationship for nothing.
NADIA Interesting. OK, harder one. If your company offered you double your salary to move to another country tomorrow — no partner, no friends, nobody — would you go?
RUTH Double? I'd go tonight. I wouldn't even pack properly.
KWAME See, I wouldn't. Money isn't the problem in my life. If I moved away from everyone I love, I'd be rich and miserable. What would I spend it on — video calls?
NADIA That's surprisingly deep for you.
KWAME I have depths.
NADIA Last one, and be honest. If you could read your partner's mind for one day — just one — would you do it?
KWAME No. Absolutely not. No no no.
RUTH That was very fast, Kwame.
KWAME Because I know myself! If I heard one bad thought — one! — I'd never forget it. Some doors, you don't open.
RUTH I'd do it. If the relationship were strong, one day of honesty wouldn't break it. And if it broke it... well, then I'd know something important, wouldn't I?
NADIA You two are so different. If I were you, Ruth, I wouldn't share that answer with your husband.
RUTH Oh, he knows. He said if he could read my mind, he'd resign from it after an hour. Too much traffic.